Premature Ejaculation Treatment

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Since starting this blog about Jimmy's premature ejaculation treatment I have received numerous emails suggesting that Jimmy try a product called ‘Ejaculation Trainer’ by a chap called Matt Gorden. I talked to Jimmy about it and he said as long as it didn’t involve any embarrassing trips to be examined by a doctor or specialist who asks all sorts of private questions then he may be willing to give it a go.

We both sat down and looked through the ejaculation trainer website and we were both surprised with his claim of improving things within one day! Yeah right we both said as we chuckled at the thought! Further looking through his site and read the testimonials that people had given, most stating that the techniques work very quickly, in a matter of 1-2 days and so we thought what the heck, let’s give it a go and see – and so we made the purchase.

The book include lots of valid information relating to premature ejaculation problems and goes through a whole array of problems, some of which we could definitely relate to. Just by relating to one scenario in the book all of a sudden removes the loneliness and helped Jimmy to relax, knowing that others are having similar problems and for similar reasons.

The book then goes on to describe various methods of dealing with the problem depending on the root cause and gives solutions to the problems. The solutions pretty much resolve around three main things – physical control exercises, hormonal imbalance and mental control exercises – and there are plenty of options to try

So far there are a couple of techniques that are working very well for Jimmy. I’m very happy that we gave this product a go because it is effective with huge potential for the future. I’ve read similar books before but they don’t go into the detail about how to actually ‘practice’ the techniques, this book leaves no questions unanswered which is why it is working so well. We’ve tried techniques in the past and got to a stage were something happens and we think, hang on, what do we do now? This book covers all those scenarios and more, it’s very in depth and easy to follow. Jimmy has even let slip a couple of compliments about it too :-)

It’s now been two weeks since we purchased the book and we’ve found one technique which is working very well indeed. Not only does Jimmy last longer, he’s more relaxed which makes me more relaxed, we are having more fun and Jimmy can actually control when to let go – Finishing on demand.

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Good news. Jimmy does seem to be lasting longer during sex so something about the premature ejaculation treatment seems to be working!

The yoga course is going really well and is not only bringing us closer by allowing us to spend time together but I believe it has helped with the premature ejaculation issue too. Jimmy seems much more relaxed in bed now, especially since I explained to him how common the problem it is and how relaxation and maintaining a calm state of mind have been shown to really help. He seems much more convinced that this is not a problem he will be stuck with forever and that natural treatments are working.

Since I last updated Jimmy has been doing some premature ejaculation research of his own and talking to one of his mates down the pub (after more than few beers I might add, he apparently forgot that we aren’t drinking alcohol!). Anyway, it turns out that his mate has had a similar problem in the past and he recommended Jimmy use masturbation to help treat it as that was what really helped him. He said that it allowed him to work out where his thresholds were at and work on improving them.

So (apparently) when the man is masturbating and feels that the excitement is becoming too much he should stop and calm down before carrying on. Then this should be repeated so he is practicing what it feels like to last longer and also to hold in his excitement. The idea is that the more the man becomes used to this, then the longer he will be able to last during sex. Jimmy has been practising this ‘technique’ and it does seem to be a premature ejaculation treatment that it is helping him to last longer.

I think that this combined with his now more relaxed state of mind is really helping...I hope he continues to improve his premature ejaculation and is able to stay the relaxed guy he now is!

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I spoke to Jimmy about the natural premature ejaculation treatments and not surprisingly he laughed at some of my suggestions, particularly when I told him it might help to rest his feet! However, he did take some of my other suggestions seriously and he is now taking Ginseng supplements which are known to improve sexual performance. We have both given up coffee, alcohol and tea and we are following a natural diet with plenty of fruits and vegetables.

I have also persuaded Jimmy to join up to a yoga course with me so that we can both learn to relax and hopefully use any relaxation techniques before foreplay. I have read a lot on the internet that many men have naturally treated their premature ejaculation problems by using simple relaxation exercises. I really do hope that the yoga course will help us both to relax and hopefully provide a natural premature ejaculation treatment to end Jimmy’s troubles.

More premature ejaculation treatment research on the internet leads to even more ideas. I read today that some simple exercises performed everyday have been shown to really help men suffering from premature ejaculation. The exercises help to develop the pelvic muscles and are known as ‘Kegel’ exercises. The exercises apparently help strengthen the pelvic muscles enabling the man to have more self-control in bed. Something else to convince Jimmy to try – I hope he’s not going to get fed up with all these suggestions!

Other ideas that I have read about today, but I am not convinced about include using a thick condom during sex to decrease sensation and shutting off the ejaculatory reflex by taking a deep breath...hmmmm, not sure about either of these ideas!

Oh well, I guess if none of these natural premature ejaculation treatments do work, at least Jimmy and I will be healthier and more relaxed!

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Jimmy wasn’t keen on a trip to the GP to ‘discuss his private life’ as he put it. I’m not surprised but where do we go from here? I guess the only way forward is to try out some premature ejaculation treatment recommendations that don’t include formal counselling sessions or medications so I have been on the computer researching again.

I have found the following suggestions on the internet which do claim to help treat premature ejaculation:

One rather bizarre natural cure for premature ejaculation is for the man to rest his feet! This is because men tend to tense up their legs before ejaculating so by relaxing the leg muscles it is thought premature ejaculation can be prevented.

Another idea is for the man to first control his breathing and then, when he feels he will ejaculate, to squeeze the head or the base of the penis for 20 seconds or less. It is important to note that this technique requires patience and practise. I’m not sure what Jimmy will say when I suggest these ideas to him, he will probably laugh!

An easy natural cure for premature ejaculation is to take Ginseng which is known to improve sexual performance. Ginseng can be purchased from most health food shops and Jimmy simply needs to take the supplement once per day. I’m sure he can manage this one!

Other ideas are to focus on foreplay, give up coffee, alcohol and tea, and adopt a natural diet with plenty of fruits and vegetable, especially asparagus and garlic as it is thought that these can naturally prevent premature ejaculation.

The most important thing which comes up time and time again regarding premature ejaculation treatment is to learn to relax. Practicing yoga and meditation is suggested as they can help to clear the mind and reduce anxiety and premature ejaculation has known to be cured using simple relaxation techniques.

Lots to think about!

I spoke to Jimmy and told him what I’d read on the internet about premature ejaculation treatment and he agreed that the problem does indeed sound like premature ejaculation. I’m so proud of him for talking to me about this and pleased that he is willing to try to do something about this issue which is frustrating for both of us.

It appears from my internet research that premature ejaculation is thought to be most commonly caused by a mixture of physical and psychological issues. The difficult part for men today is that many women have high expectations for their partners to be great sexual performers.

Although it is a really common problem many men are too embarrassed to talk about ways to cure premature ejaculation, even with their doctor. The stigma associated with premature ejaculation (that the man is somehow less of a man) is not good because there are many treatments available today that can help delay premature ejaculation. It is because of this that I am so pleased that Jimmy is willing to discuss the issue with me. I do feel, in situations where couples are not able to talk and the problem continues for many years, I can see that it could become a real issue in a relationship.

Experts recommend the best way of treating premature ejaculation is to firstly find out if there is a physical reason why a man is climaxing too soon. Treatment for biological issues such as erectile dysfunction and abnormal hormone levels may well prevent the problem

Interestingly, most doctors still recommend therapy and education about techniques as the best premature ejaculation treatment even if there is a known biological cause.

Sexual therapy is recommended for men who suffer from premature ejaculation. Sexual therapists can suggest techniques to delay ejaculations which might include masturbation an hour or so before sex so it is easier to ejaculate later during intercourse, taking part in other sexual activities to reduce the pressure to perform (ie. avoiding intercourse) and using specific techniques to ‘desensitize’ the penis are some suggestions.

Some doctors also recommend counselling or psychotherapy to help men cure premature ejaculation. This enables couples to work through any problems and can help reduce any anxiety that can often be a cause of premature ejaculation.

I will speak to Jimmy gain to tell him what I have read – not sure he’ll be keen on a visit to the GP after it took so long for him to talk to me....

My lovely husband Jimmy has for the past 6 months suffered with an embarrassing man problem which he now wants to talk to me about. I think the problem is premature ejaculation. Jimmy comes too soon before either of us has reached a climax and this is frustrating for both of us. However, I am glad that he feels he can talk to me about it and I hope that together we can find an answer to the problem.

I have done some initial investigating into premature ejaculation treatment on the internet and I have learnt that in simple terms, premature ejaculation is when the man ejaculates too soon (ie. before his partner and / or before he has reached a climax). However, ‘premature’ can mean different things to different couples and there is no medical definition as to what time frame constitutes ‘premature’.

There are actually 2 types of premature ejaculation. The first type occurs when the man has always suffered with premature ejaculation and is called ‘primary premature ejaculation’. The other, more common type is called ‘secondary premature ejaculation’ and generally occurs in older men.

Premature ejaculation occurs in men of all ages. However, younger men are more prone to suffer from this disorder due to their sexual inexperience. The excitement associated with the first sexual acts can cause the ejaculation to be premature. However, as men get older, they learn better control and are able to hold out until their partners have reached their sexual climax.

I guess Jimmy is amongst the group of older men who commonly suffer from premature ejaculation as up until now we have had a healthy sex life. I hope we are able to discover what is causing it and if there is a premature ejaculation treatment which might help, I am willing to help him in whatever way I can.